Bear with me, this is probably going to get a bit whiney and sound like a pity party, and guess what?? IT IS! But, I've completed my moral obligation and told you in advance...
I'm very frustrated at my baby daddies tonight. Let me start with Noah's donor first. He has called me on several occasions for two weeks now talking about these starter checks that he has, and trying to find out who would accept them as payment. Claims he has money in his checking account, and wants to go shopping to buy Noah some winter clothes... HA! Ok, let's not laugh yet... it gets better. He tells me he called wal-mart and they said they take them. Not really sure on this, but to my knowledge, no one accepts them due to a high fraud potential. Anyhow, I play along. He says he's going to go in the next few days and get some stuff and call me to pick up. Still, I play along. When he calls me Thursday, he has tried to do it, and wal mart will NOT, in fact, accept a starter check. Ok, cool, whatever. Probably ain't no money in the account like I thought all along anyways because if he wanted to go do it so badly, he can ALWAYS withdraw money during bank hours at a branch. It's not like he has a JOB to go to that keeps him from doing this! Lyin behind...
It gets even better, ya'll! He also now tells me he was helping some lady move her stuff and her entertainment center fell on top of him, and almost broke his ribs, but didn't. His rib cage is bruised and he has trouble breathing without an inhaler. Do I have $15 or $20 he can get to buy his medicine? He will pay me back!!!!! AAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAH! What about this mysterious bank account? GO MAKE A WITHDRAW!!! Wait, there's more: The lady called her insurance company, and he should be getting a settlement check and will "help me out with something" when it comes. Oh, this is just too much. The insurance company called him, and asked him if he wanted to settle in or out of court. He opted for out of court. OH MAN -- my sides hurt from laughing so hard at the compilation of lies that surround this sorry excuse of a father.
I sent him texts both Friday and Saturday to see if he was busy/had holiday weekend plans, thinking MAYBE he wanted to see his son and spend some time with him. No response... lol... LOSER!
And, I'm not calling him a loser merely because of his actions, ya'll... He IS a loser, because he loses out on spending time with an amazing kid!
Now, onto the next. Ayanna's daddy, on the other hand, is there, will watch her on occasion when I ask him to, and helps out financially some, too. BUT - I'm just irritated that he went out to be DD for some drunk fools last Saturday night, played pool this Firday night, and is back at the DD routine again tonight. I wouldn't mind a night out, too. But, see, even if I get him to watch Aya, I have Noah to make arrangements for, so what's the point? He keeps telling me to bring her over to his house, and go out. He fails to realize it's just not that simple. He also has made comments about me letting her stay there if it's too hard with both kids. That's not the case, I just don't really like the fact that I can't go out. lol. Just once every other week. Without having to BEG him to watch baby or babies... I just want someone else to share this responsibility with me. I am going to catch a lot of crap for this one, but I want to spread the misery around a little... lol.
Why do baby daddies get it so easy? Why do moms have to stay at home all the time? Why can't moms get some alone time? Some kid-free time? Cuz you know what I'd do? On of three things if I was kid-free... I'd be playin bingo, singing karaoke, OR cleaning my house. FML.
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